It’s Better to Obey Husband Than to Burn – Part 1

[Disobedient Wives Prayers Will Be Hindered!]

In accordance with Matthew 19:9-10:

Matthew 19:9-10 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.”

Jesus’ disciples thought, like Paul thought;

I Corinthians 7:1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.”

That it wasn’t good for a man to marry a woman, considering that a man couldn’t put away a woman for “Every Cause.”

However, I am pretty sure there will be a plethora of “Christian” women saying the same thing Jesus’ disciples had said that “if the case of the woman be so with her husband, it is not good to marry.” Because after reading the books in the Man, the Head of Woman Series by the Gathering of Israel, “Christian” women will understand that if they don’t obey their husbands, they will not be forgiven by God, for blaspheming his word (cf. Titus 2:5 with Heb 3:7-12 and Matt 12:31-32).

Domestic violence from husbands against their wives (and vice versa) has always existed. It isn’t just a modern phenomenon. When domestic violence happened among God’s people, God dealt with it accordingly, not generally like modern secular authorities have affirmed to do.

God causes a man to suffer and will not answer his prayers if he does such a thing as abuse his wife without a just cause.

Malachi 2:13-16 And this have ye done again, covering the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping, and with crying out, insomuch that he regardeth not the offering any more, or receiveth it with good will at your hand. Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet is she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.”

I Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”

On the flip side, which isn’t talked about in Christian Churches today, is that God will not answer a wife’s prayers either if she is abusive to her husband. By her disobedience to him, which is passive aggressive abuse.

Just like husbands must give honor (mercy) unto their wives, wives must give honor (respect, reverence) unto their husbands that their prayers may not be hindered!

Ephesians 5:32-33 “This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.”

The prayers of wives who are disobedient to their husbands will be hindered by God (not the Laws of the Land and western society in general) because they are not keeping God’s Law in being obedient to their husbands.

I Corinthians 14:34 “Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.”

People—such as disobedient wives—who turn their ear from hearing and keeping God’s Law, and who regard iniquity in their heart, all of their prayers are an abomination to the Lord. So, God will not hear them and their prayers will not be answered.

Proverbs 28:9 “He (or she) that turneth away his ear from hearing the law (Gen 3:16), even his (or her) prayer shall be abomination.”

Psalm 66:18 “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me.”

Modern Preachers who advocate for modern secular authorities will be quick to teach that a man’s prayers will be hindered if he doesn’t give honor (mercy) unto his wife (cf. I Peter 3:7). Yet they never teach that a woman’s prayers will also be hindered if she doesn’t give honor (respect, reverence, obedience) to hear husband—in accordance with God’s law. This is the danger that secular and religious preachers are putting women in when they LIE to cater to them. By them not teaching that a disobedient wife’s prayers will be hindered by God.

So, it’s better for women to except the truth from brothers and sisters like me. We are trying to save you from God by giving you the truth. We are not trying to oppress you under men.

As I was growing up on the West side of Chicago, I heard many young women jokingly say to each other, when someone ask them where they were going “To Hell If I Don’t Pray.” But on a serious note, it doesn’t matter if they pray, God isn’t going to hear (listen to) their prayer anyway, and still they are going to hell if they don’t obey their husbands. So, it should’ve been said by them “To Hell If I Don’t OBEY”!

While these female appeasing preachers are telling men in their congregation that “it is better to marry than to burn”—I Corin 7:9, they should also be telling the women in their congregation that “it is better to OBEY than to burn.” Because disobedient wives are going directly to the Lake of Fire.

A Prayer is a sacrifice unto God.

Proverbs 15:8 The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD: but the prayer of the upright is his delight.”

So, for example, say a wife brings a prayer unto the man God with a wicked mind, supplicating about her marital problems with her husband. Problems which come from her attitude of “he don’t tell me what to do.” Than her prayer looking for comfort from the man God is an abomination.

Proverbs 21:27The sacrifice of the wicked is abomination: how much more, when he bringeth it with a wicked mind.”

Because again, such a disobedient wife turns her ear from God’s Law, which states that a wife is to obey her husband.

I Corinthians 14:34 “Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law.”

Proverbs 28:9 “He (or she) that turneth away his ear from hearing the law (Gen 3:16), even his (or her) prayer shall be abomination.”

Therefore, it will be better for a wife to Obey her husband as God commanded her, instead of her praying or sacrificing to God about her marital problems with a wicked mind of insubordination toward her husband.

I Samuel 15:22 “And Samuel said, Hath the LORD as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to [obey] is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.”

It will also be better for her to Obey her husband than for her to be a loud and stubborn wife toward him.

Proverbs 7:4-5, 11 “Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman: That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words. She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house.”

The stubbornness of being a disobedient wife—who turns her ear from hearing and doing God’s Law (Gen 3:16)—is idolatry.

I Samuel 15:23 “For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and [stubbornness] is as iniquity and [idolatry]. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king.

Hence, for that stubbornness of being a disobedient wife—which is Idolatry, such a disobedient wife will be cast into the Lake of Fire.

Revelation 21:8 “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”

Therefore, the saying for a wife “To Hell If I Don’t OBEY” is true.


This was the Doctrine of the Gathering of Israel


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