Sound Doctrine (An Obedient Wife)

(This Post is an excerpt from the book Till Divorce Do Us Part: Book III in the Man, the Head of Woman Series. On sale now! Click here if you like to purchase this book.)

Chapter 2 – Sound Doctrine (An Obedient Wife)

The way today’s preachers teach man, the head of the woman, if they teach it all, is the same way [Going to Heaven] is taught by them, while they also talk about, or sing about, being resurrected from the dead.

Which one is it?

Are we going to heaven right after we die?

Or are we going to be resurrected from the dead when the 7th Trumpet Blows?

Teaching both going to heaven and being resurrected from the dead simultaneously isn’t Sound Doctrine. Choose One!

The Gathering of Israel (the GOI) will teach you later the resurrection from the dead in blog posts and Sabbath Day Lessons because it’s sound doctrine!


Which one is it?

Is it Gender Equality?

Or is it Man, the Head of the Woman?

Teaching both gender equality and man, the head of the woman, simultaneously isn’t Sound Doctrine! It’s syncretism with feminism, so Choose One!

Here at the GOI we choose one, and only one. We choose man, the head of the woman. Than segued into the Obedient Wife. Cause the Obedient Wife is Sound Doctrine!

Modern Preachers often set the ground work of complaining about how a myriad amount of men are supposedly so abusive to women, and how they are so inapt at being fathers and providers that when they start teaching—in the same lesson or same sermon—about the obedient wife, they already have sabotaged (on purpose) any man chances of being the head of his wife with their ambivalent doctrine.

What’s it going to be?

Gender Equality?

Or the Obedient Wife?

Let the GOI in this post teach you about the Obedient Wife, because it’s Sound Doctrine!

Let the GOI take you away from the Gender Equality Wife, because it’s not sound doctrine, it’s ambivalent doctrine.

Contrary to sound doctrine, Modern Preachers and the disobedient wives/gender equality wives they appease use what Jesus said in Matthew 19:9 of a husband not being able to put away his wife (except for adultery) to transgress the Law in Genesis 3:16 of a husband being the God ordained ruler over his wife.

Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”

The correct context to what Jesus said in Matthew 19:9 is that a husband can’t put away [an obedient wife]. It was rightly assumed by everyone who Jesus was talking to that when he said “put away his wife,” that he meant an obedient wife. Why in the world would he have meant a disobedient wife in the context he was talking in not putting away your wife for “every cause”

Matthew 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for [every cause].”

It is only fair and balanced that since a husband has God giving rule over his wife, and his wife’s “desire” (judgment for her actions) is unto him (Gen 3:16), that he can’t just kick her to the curb for any little thing  (or “every cause”), barring she is obedient to him.

The husband has the responsibility of giving his wife security (Matt 19:9) for her obedience, while the wife is responsible for giving her husband reverence (Eph 5:33) for his security. But, for a husband to give his wife security for her disobedience, as according to modern preachers and divorce court, isn’t Sound Doctrine!

No employer is required to provide job security for employee(s) who are non-complaint with the employer’s rules and regulations. So how in the hell are these religious and secular authorities making it so—by their dogma and laws—that a husband must provide spousal security for a wife who is non-complaint with his rules and regulations. That isn’t Sound Doctrine!

Modern Preachers and Secular Authorities both use the Laws of the Land to transgress God’s Law in Genesis 3:16 (husband rule over wife).

Regardless of how you transgress God’s Law, whether you do it [by God’s Law], or by Man’s Law, transgressing God’s Law is still defined as sinning.

I John 3:4 Whosoever committeth sin transgresseth also the law: for sin is the transgression of the law.”

Using God’s Law (Matt 19:9) or Man’s Law to transgress God’s Law (Gen 3:16)—which is a sinisn’t Sound Doctrine!

Anyone using God’s Law to transgress God’s Law (how weird does that sound), makes God’s Law one’s strength to sin (transgress God’s Law). Which isn’t Sound Doctrine!

I Corinthians 15:56 The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law.”

You can’t keep one Law and cause another Law to be broken in the same set of Law you are dealing with, since it is written that if you offend in one point, then you are guilty of breaking all the Laws.

James 2:10-11 For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all. For he that said, Do not commit adultery, said also, Do not kill. Now if thou commit no adultery, yet if thou kill, thou art become a transgressor of the law.”

For he that said:

Matthew 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”

Also said:

Genesis 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”                                                              

Modern Preachers offend in the latter scripture above and fervently go out to keep the former scripture of a husband not putting away (divorcing) his wife for “every cause.” But in doing so, Modern Preachers cause another law to be broken: The law of a wife being obedient to her husband (Gen 3:16 & I Corin 14:33-34). Thus, Modern Preachers are guilty of breaking all the Laws.

Modern Preachers make what is written in Matthew 19:9 the strength for wives to continue sinning in disobeying their husbands. Under the Matthew 19:9 supposition that their husbands can’t put them away no matter what they do or say (except for adultery/fornication).

It ends up being that disobedient wives who don’t even keep the Law (Gen 3:16), benefit more from the Law (Matt 19:9), than the husbands who are trying their best to keep the Law (Matt 19:9). That isn’t Sound Doctrine!

God’s Law supposed to be against the sinner (not for the sinner) who is disobedient, and who does everything contrary to sound doctrine.

I Timothy 1:8-10 But we know that the law is good, if a man use it lawfully; Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and [disobedient], for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers, For whoremongers, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for menstealers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to [sound doctrine].”                                                                                                                                              

Sound Doctrine according to the Bible is a wife who is obedient to her husband.

Titus 2:1, 4-5 But speak thou the things which become [sound doctrine]: That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”                                                                                                                                            

But Modern Preachers are using God’s Law in Matthew 19:9 against sound doctrine (An Obedient Wife), instead of using God’s Law in Matthew 19:9, as it should be used, against what is contrary to sound doctrine (A Disobedient Wife).

Modern Preachers have used Matthew 19:9 and have made themselves ministers for an audience of wicked women who will not endure sound doctrine (An Obedient Wife—Titus 2:1, 4-5).

Modern Preachers are teachers for disobedient wives who have itching ears; meaning, since these disobedient wives will not endure sound doctrine (An Obedient Wife), they are ever ready to hear a Lie and turn themselves away from the truth to fables. Heresy fables which state that husbands can’t put away wives no matter what their wives say or do (except for adultery).

II Timothy 4:2-5 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine (such as an Obedient Wife); but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers (such as Modern Preachers preaching gender equality), having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry.”  

Modern Preachers can’t make full proof of their ministry—obedient husbands who can’t put away their wives. But the GOI can by the scriptures make full proof of our ministry—a wife must obey her husband lest she be put away.

As we should be using God’s commandments against everything contrary to sound doctrine, we should also be doing everything for the truth, and do nothing against the truth.

II Corinthians 13:8 “For we can do nothing against the truth, but for the truth.”

The truth is, is that Modern Preachers are doing everything against the truth when it comes to their doctrine that a husband can’t put away his wife no matter what she says or does (except for adultery).

It’s insidious that Modern Preachers propagate on how supposedly a man is “stuck” with a woman after having sexual intercourse with her. The man is supposedly “stuck” in that he can’t put the woman away from that point on regardless of what she says and does, he must live all his life with his choice of choosing her. That isn’t Sound Doctrine! The truth is, is that a woman like a man must live with her choices. Since her salvation and eternal life is on the line in accordance with how she obeys or disobeys her husband (And you are going to fully understand this once you read the subsequent chapters in this book), then it’s very urgent that a woman make the right choice and marry a man who she fills she can OBEY! Just like it’s dangerous for a man to have sex with a woman who doesn’t respect him, it’s even more eternally dangerous for a woman to marry a man who she doesn’t respect. Cause after the sexual intercourse happens (especially sexual intercourse with the same man 3 times or more—which is a confirmation of the relationship), she is “stuck” with him, she has no other choice but to OBEY HIM—according to her vow before God! Or else she can be put away by the man and be cast into the Lake of Fire for her idolatry (Rev 21:8). That is Sound Doctrine!

A woman needs to make it her business to find a man who she feels is worthy of her respect and her obedience. I know that all men are not worthy of respect and obedience, because all men are not good leaders and don’t know how to serve women as a civil servant. Nevertheless, a woman batter not get herself “stuck” in a vow before God with those men who are not worthy of respect and obedience, by not having sexual relations with them in the first place.

Modern Preachers rather for wives to continue disobeying their husbands, than have their husbands put them away for their disobedience. Apparently, to Modern Preachers, it’s more important for a husband to keep his marriage vow of not putting away his wife for “every cause,” than for his wife to obey him. But wait a minute though, the wife obeying her husband is her wedding vow to God. Thus, Modern Preachers are admitting in their own little female appeasing way, that one law supersedes another law. They are inadvertently saying that the Law of a husband not putting away his wife for “every cause” to keep his wedding vow to God, supersedes his wife having to obey him which is her wedding vow to God.

Therefore, Modern Preachers are caught up again in their hypocrisy (i.e. Luke 12:1), when they Lie and say that God’s Laws are absolute rules with no exceptions and that there is no law of God which supersedes another law of God. Modern Preachers saying a husband can’t put away his wife no matter what (except for adultery), which supposedly supersedes a man putting away his wife for constant disobedience isn’t Sound Doctrine!

What are Modern Preachers going to say? A wife doesn’t have to obey her husband and keep her vow of marriage to God if she chooses not to. Yet her husband has no other choice but to keep his marriage vow to God and not put her away for “every cause.” Even if that cause is his wife breaking the Covenant of Life and Peace (due order—Man, the head of the woman) that she made with him before God. That doesn’t sound fair or balanced, which is why it isn’t Sound Doctrine!

Modern Preachers make it seem like a man should feel guilty because God ordained him to rule over his wife (Gen 3:16). They covertly try to get men under their tutelage to voluntarily abdicate their positions as the head of their wives to downgrade to “gender equality” with their wives or be under their wives in authority. All in the spirit of the American way and doing “what is right.” That is syncretism of God’s Law with feminism. The Syncretism of God’s Law with Feminism isn’t Sound Doctrine!

The syncretism of God’s Law of a wife obeying her husband conjoined with feminsim of wives being equal with their husbands in authority isn’t going to work. It isn’t Sound Doctrine! It makes the commandment of God of a wife obeying her husband of non-effect. All of which underscores that Modern Preachers judge God’s Law of a wife being obedient to her husband as evil. Than these same preachers will consequently speak evil of men who put away their wives for their disobedience.

Modern Preachers speaking evil of a man for putting away his wife for her constant disobedience shows that these preachers are not doers of the law (Gen 3:16), but are judges, judges who are against God’s Law (Gen 3:16).

James 4:11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.”

Since Modern Preachers judge a man for doing evil for keeping the Law (Gen 3:16), when he puts away a consistently disobedient wife, they will be judge by God for doing evil. They will be doubly judge, for judging a man of doing evil for keeping the Law (Gen 3:16), and for not keeping the Law (Gen 3:16) themselves, but looking at the Law (Gen 3:16) as if it is evil.

Matthew 7:1-5 Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.”

Modern Preachers act like the Bible says “A husband should not put away his wife that the Word of God be not blasphemed.”

The Bible actually says “obedient to their own husbands, that the Word of God be not blasphemed”—Titus 2:5.

There is no place in scripture where it says that a husband who puts away his wife is blaspheming the Word of God.

One would think, that Modern Preachers would think, that the more important Law between a man keeping his marriage vow of not putting away his wife for “every cause,” versus that same wife obeying her husband according to her marriage vow, would be the latter one. Since the Bible says a wife who doesn’t obeys her husband blasphemes the Word of God. But to female appeasing preachers, a disobedient wife isn’t blasphemy to them—although the Bible says it is blasphemy. A man who puts away his wife for constant disobedience is blasphemy to Modern Preachers. This non-biblical reasoning by Modern Preachers is blasphemy and contrary to sound doctrine (An Obedient Wife).

Modern Preachers judging that a man who puts away his wife for constant disobedience counts as blasphemy against him, is the exact reason why you brothers can’t look for justice from a preacher when you are dealing with a consistently disobedient wife. Their judgments according to their partiality toward women will always be unjust toward men. You know God’s Law (Gen 3:16), you know your situation with your disobedient wife, and you know yourself. Hence, you know if your wife’s disobedience is justified or not. Be self-reliant, and take it upon yourself to give yourself justice and not look for it from a preacher or a secular authority. Justice doesn’t come from without, anyway, justice is a by-product of the self-respect you have for yourself within you. Therefore, respect yourself and be merciful to yourself, don’t go through unnecessary misery and vanity (Eccl 8:14). Especially don’t go through any misery and vanity (Eccl 8:14) from someone who God has ordained you to rule over (Gen 3:16). Put the disobedient wife away! Don’t observe the Lying Vanities of Modern Preachers who say you can’t put your wife away no matter what she does or says against you (except for adultery). If you don’t put the disobedient wife away, by-and-by you will end up forsaking your own mercy from misery because you have hearken to these Lying Vanities coming from female appeasing preachers.

Jonah 2:8 They that observe lying vanities forsake their own mercy.”


This was the Doctrine of the Gathering of Israel


Jehoiada Israel